We have a room by the front door that we call the piano room. It's also my work room, where I keep all the bags from my business and business supplies. We have a beautiful piano in there that isn't tuned and I was told that if it had sentimental value it might be worth fixing up. So my idea is to take it apart and make a desk out of it. Something that is for my business.
All that description to say that I start there, but don't forget the stairs, they need to be swept/vacuumed about three times a week with our traffic. Daily pick-ups are necessary, dusting and floors weekly. Then I move on to living room, dining room, kitchen and bathrooms.
I make a list of what needs done daily - a quick once over in the bathrooms, sweeping in the kitchen and dining room; and what needs to be done 3 times a week - floors on the main level; and what needs to be done weekly, dusting etc.
When this list is divided eight ways, we conquer it pretty well. It may be discouraging if you are the mom of little ones. I guess I would say you can only do your best. Follow FLYLady, she gives you just a few steps per day. Give your child a cloth on dusting day and don't worry about getting every speck. Or find little ways to have them help. If they are helping you, they aren't making bigger messes, maybe.
Or just pick one room to clean a day. You won't get everything done in a week, but it doesn't matter. You may not be able to wash sheets every week or something may get behind. The idea is not perfection, but progress. If all you are doing is maintaining that is enough. If you go backward for awhile, but you are doing your best, that is enough. At some point things will move forward, just keep being faithful.
We are cleaning for an audience of One (God) - not the world, not how our mothers did it. Do you realize that if we remember how our mothers did it, we probably were old enough that we were helping or at least not making as many messes? What God thinks matters more than what anyone else thinks? And if He is pleased with you, then the world can think what they like?
I am a people pleaser. I love it when people are happy with me. But I need to change that.
"Your name is the only name that matters to me, the only One whose favor I seek."
Have you heard that song? It's one that stands out to me.
Keep pressing on,